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What do we say to a loved one who has just received a terminal diagnosis? How do we cope with the news that we have a life-threatening illness? How do we deal with our grief?
Graceful Endings offers simple strategies for creating a graceful end of life experience. It contains true stories of individuals who chose to die consciously, fully alive and open to the wonders that can arise in this fragile and sacred passage of life. It provides tools for surviving and even thriving through the roller coaster of emotions in facing death -- practices that sustain the dying and those that love them throughout the journey.
With deep candor, former Hospice Spiritual Care Director and best-selling author, Linda Kavelin-Popov explores the faces and phases of grief. She shares her own experience as a caregiver for her younger brother, John, who died of brain cancer, and the inspiring story of how John faced his own death with reverence, trust, and joy.
Graceful Endings edition by Linda KavelinPopov Religion Spirituality eBooks
This book provides gentle guidance through the process of grieving the loss of a loved one. Ms. Kavelin-Popov relates her experience of facing her brother's terminal illness and the emotional roller coaster caregivers and families go through during that process. She frames the challenges in terms of the virtues called for in coping, caring, adapting, and healing through the grief. More than a self-help book, this is a tool that can be used repeatedly to remind readers of strategies that are useful for facing all kinds of losses. Highly recommended reading for those who seek deeper meaning and purpose during bereavement.Product details
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Graceful Endings edition by Linda KavelinPopov Religion Spirituality eBooks Reviews
I am one of those people who thinks that a deep understanding of death can be incredibly life-affirming. Reading Linda Kavelin-Popov's book "Graceful Endings Navigating the Journey of Loss and Grief" has confirmed me in this prejudice. As a former Hospice Spiritual Care Director, Ms Kavelin-Popov is well qualified to write on this topic, following in the tradition of luminaries such as Elisabeth Kubler-Ross. However, what makes this book so compelling is the fact that it is not simply a general discussion of the process of dying, but a deeply personal account of the passing of her own brother, John Kavelin, to whom she was the primary caregiver during his last months.
Mr Kavelin was diagnosed with terminal brain cancer in April 2008, passing away some fifteen months later. The book narrates the "inner journey" of both Mr Kavelin and his sister in navigating "this fragile and sacred passage of life". Mr Kavelin's attitude to his imminent passing was informed by his deep faith, and was quite remarkable. Ms Kavelin-Popov writes "John's new script was that of a dying man who was not merely embracing the unknown, but awaiting it with open arms. Most of the people I have cared for at hospice met death with a sense of peace. Yet, I had never before witnessed such joy. The palliative care nurses told me and John the same thing." When asked about this attitude, Mr Kavelin responded "Well, I've always loved change - enjoyed the new. In our Faith, prayer is conversation with the Beloved, and death is reunion with the Beloved. So for me, there's no fear. There's never been any fear. To be honest, I can hardly contain my excitement about what's next".
Born in 1944, Mr Kavelin had lived a full and rewarding life, enjoying a distinguished career in design working as a Walt Disney Imagineer. Amongst other achievements, he designed "Mr Toad's Wild Ride" in Disneyland. His work demonstrated the sense of adventure that was a part of who he was, and this was also reflected in his attitude to his process of dying. He saw dying, and the life beyond, as simply a new adventure to be welcomed.
One of the distinguishing features of "Graceful Endings" is the insight it receives from the author's work with "The Virtues Project". The Virtues Project, which draws on the teachings of the world's different spiritual traditions, suggests that our life's purpose is deeply connected to developing a range of spiritual qualities, such as love, compassion, gratitude, justice, generosity, joyfulness etc. Life's hardships can be viewed as "teachable moments", in which we have the opportunity to develop these qualities within ourselves. From this perspective, the process of coming to terms with the struggles of a terminal illness represents a further "teachable moment". Ms Kavelin-Popov describes her brother's teachable moment in these terms "He moved into a state of mind where this normally fast-moving, multi-tasking engineer and designer slowed down to a genuine pace of grace, living in the moment. As John often said, he was learning, for the first time in his life, how to move from doing to being. The virtues of endurance, acceptance, fortitude, and faith merged toward the end into awe and joy - what he called his `slow miracle'".
As well as a touching account of how a person might embrace the challenges of suffering from a terminal illness, "Graceful Endings" is full of uplifting, and practical advice for caregivers and family members in this situation. A survey of the book's chapter headings is illustrative "The Journey of Grief", "Virtues for the Journey", "What Helps What Doesn't", "Care for the Caregiver", "Final Gifts", "Getting to Goodbye", "Life After Death" and "Reinventing Yourself". There is a wealth of advice in terms of managing both the caring process and one's own grief after such a profound loss. Her practical advice for self-care strategies draws on her other work, "A Pace of Grace", and is very applicable to this situation.
I was already a fan of Linda Kavelin-Popov's books after finding such a wealth of wisdom in "A Pace of Grace". From this perspective, I am happy to say that "Graceful Endings" did not disappoint. I loved it, and found it to be an uplifting and profound work. Similar to watching "The Last Lecture" of Randy Pausch on Youtube (referenced in "Graceful Endings"), you are left with the desire to truly get the most you can out of your own life, squeezing even the very last drop.
This book helped a close friend going through the loss of a parent dying of cancer. Beautifully written. Thank you!
I bought Graceful Endings as I work as a Celebrant so it was good background material for me. However, it is aimed more at those living with the dying person and it certainly gives some very good advice on coping with this difficult time.
Linda Kavelin-Popov's book, Graceful Endings, is insightful and affirming. The experiences and processes she describes are a broad brushstroke of my own experiences in losing my dear ones. It brought tears and laughter and gave me peace as I reflected on its meaning. Linda writes from her heart and because she does, it touches one's own heart.
The sharing of such a personal journey is an act of courage and a true gift to humankind. It is so fitting with the work we do in hospices - heart to heart.
For anyone faced with this over a long or short period the journey for the carers is a kaleidoscope of emotion, grief, loss, hard work, daily sacrifice, as well as joy and grace, sharing and laughter. Looking after yourself as the carer with clear boundaries of what you need to be able to present for the long haul is critical and possibly the most difficult challenge to overcome and be at peace with. Linda Kavelin-Popov describes her journey with such beauty , dignity and grace - the love for her bother John shines trough on every page but so does the daily challenges every carer must face. It is a very honest portrayal and moving saga at every stage. Her life experience has given her the writing skills to write this book is such a relatable way that it will be an extremely useful for anyone finding themselves as a carer. This book is about caring for a loved one with cancer but applies in any caring situation.
This is very sound in what if offers to people dealing with the passing of their loved ones. I have purchased and lent the hard copy to friends who have also endorsed this book as having an excellent presentation on a difficult subject. PLEASE NOTE - I OMITTED TO MENTION THAT THIS BOOK DID NOT DOWNLOAD INTO KINDLE PROPERLY AND THERE WERE CHUNKS OF IT MISSING, NOTEABLY WHEN THERE WAS A CHANGE IN TYPE FACT
As always Ms. Kavelin-Popv presents the reader with a comforting and gentle read about one of life's most difficult transitions. Sharing her own, personal story . Linda tells her story with humor ,honesty and much insight. As a teacher, therapist and Virtues Project founder, Linda had much experience to draw on as she and her husband Dan and beloved brother John made this journey. It is an easy read and one that touches the heart on all levels. Having had the privilege to study with Linda on the Virtues Project, it is no surprise to understand and to witness her grace, compassion, humility and above all, her love. This book is a must read especially for anyone facing the death of a loved one and for all of us as we take this journey of life together
Dana Craig Baier, LMFT ( former Virtues Project Facilitator)
This book provides gentle guidance through the process of grieving the loss of a loved one. Ms. Kavelin-Popov relates her experience of facing her brother's terminal illness and the emotional roller coaster caregivers and families go through during that process. She frames the challenges in terms of the virtues called for in coping, caring, adapting, and healing through the grief. More than a self-help book, this is a tool that can be used repeatedly to remind readers of strategies that are useful for facing all kinds of losses. Highly recommended reading for those who seek deeper meaning and purpose during bereavement.
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